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Monday, January 25, 2010

take a long walk...

off a short fuckin pier.

thats what i want to tell him. 

one of my BFF's for the last 20 years wants to go to Vegas for her 30th in April.  she's invited me and Mr. Man to join her & her hubby & two other couples. 


hes kind of being a dick about it though. 

see, he goes to vegas every year with his brother & another friend.  theyve gone like every year for like 18 years or some shit. 

i, however, NEVER go ANYwhere.  ANYWHERE. 

ive been asking him to take me to vegas, just for a couple of days, for monnnnnnnnnths. 

i asked him again the other day.  he, instead, tells me if i have X amount of dollars, he will cash in his frequent flyer miles and send my kids & i to disney.  JUST my kids and me.  NOT HIM.

WTF asshat???? 

now, i tell him that i want us to go to vegas with my girl & the crew for the bday celebration. 

he got suuuuuuuuuuuper pissy with me about it. 

"see, ive been to vegas once or twice" he says "and when you go with groups like that, it just sucks"

im all.........um, we dont have to be with the GROUP the whole fucking time.  we can go and DO things.  you know TOGETHER????? 

and hes like, we'll talk about it. 

fuck talk.  book the tickets & the fucking room. 

am i wrong if i go without him?  yes, ill be the only one stag.  but, WTF?  i cannot sit here forever waiting for him to want to fucking do something that I want to do....  right??!?!?!?!?

help me out here..... 

if you were in my position, would you go without him? 


Shell said...

Oh, hell yeah, I'd go by myself.

Desert Rose said...

If it's something that you really want to do, then I would just go by myself. Live like your dieing and don't let life pass you by!

Kara @ His, Hers and Ours said...

I'd be gone like the wind! GO, go, go, go!!

Triplets Plus Two Momma said...

Have a FABULOUS TIME. Maybe your man will grow up while your gone. No offense.

You're a big girl. Love is all about compromise. You've done everything possible to include him. He already made his choice. You don't even have to. :)